Being in love
Should you tell them?
A few things to think about to help you decide if you should share your feelings:

Have you fully thought through all the advantages and disadvantages of talking about your feelings with the person you love? If you talk about them, it may work out. If you don’t talk about them, you might never find out whether your feelings were reciprocated!

You can never predict the other person’s reaction. Are you ready for every possible reaction? Is the risk worth it?


Choosing to wait is totally okay, you know! However, the other person may be waiting for you to speak up, do something, or otherwise take the first step!

Things you can ask yourself:
  • Why am I making this choice?
  • Am I waiting for the “right moment" to bring it up?
  • Can I live with the fact that my fear is keeping me from a relationship I want?
  • If I don’t do anything, maybe nothing will happen. Am I okay with that?


A few things to keep in mind if you decide to talk about them:

No need for drama! You can take the time to get to know each other and spend time together without putting on lots of pressure!

What does she like? What does he like? Take the time to discover the other person’s tastes and interests.

It pays to be open! The person you love has the right to think about their own feelings and take the time they need!
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