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Breaking up
Before breaking up: some things to think about
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU WANT TO BREAK UP?
Fed up with fighting. Are you tired of trying to solve conflicts?
"I love him, I love him not…" Do you still love your partner?
"They're getting on my nerves..." Are some of your partner’s habits becoming unbearable?
To each his own. Have the two of you had more trouble communicating lately?
Same old same old… Are you losing interest in seeing your current partner?
"My heart is taken…" Has someone else caught your eye? Do you think more about them now?
HOW TO BREAK UP
There isn’t any magic formula! It’s never easy to end a relationship!
Face to face? Are you comfortable with the idea of breaking up in person, or would you prefer another way (telephone, email, etc.)?
Word of mouth. Is there any chance that your partner could learn about it from someone else?
Be clear. Can you clearly express your reasons for breaking up?
It’s all your fault! Talk from the heart, without blaming the other person.
Action/reaction. Your partner is entitled to not like what you’re saying, and to be angry, disappointed or sad. It's their right.