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Person - girl - 18 ans (23 January 2009)

You see, my best guy friend and my best girl friend went out together and are total opposites. They broke up and dislike each other very much. Now he is my crush and I have no other options but to be best friends with one them because I can't play it both ways. what do I do?

Tel-jeunes’ answer

Hello Person,

I read your message with attention.

You seem to be wondering what do to do in this situation. What do you want exactly?

You also mention that there is no other option but to be best friends with one of them. Why? What makes you having to choose between both of them?

Conflicts between our friends are never easy. Still, we have to remember that the conflict isn’t ours. We don’t need to take sides if we don’t feel like it. The conflict belongs to them. Do you agree with me?


When we don’t know what to do, we can take the time to think about what we want and make our decisions according to it. What do you think? Do you need to think about it? Do you need to talk with your friends and let them know how you feel?


I will let you think about it. We are always available for you!

Take care

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