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[ is love are happy ]
ok hi i just ask some thing realy important to my sister(small sis 13 years) ok because she ask me what is love and is it wonderfull or painfull would i dont know how to answer her question because all the girl i hang out with is wonderfull but some time painfull how should i told my young sister because she has a probleme too with love she love another boy but she hang out with a boy who smaller than her like he is 12 years old and my sis 13 years and also i dont like that boy even my family dont like that boy now my sis hang out with we all like that boy who my sister love the problem is we dont know if he love my sister now she dont want to eat and her face is all white like she is not well when she heard about the boy she love have another girlfriend would yesterday i fight with him i ask him do you love my sis i answer me take care of her i dont know what is his meaning please help my sis my parent were worried about her because she the youngest in our family i realy love my sis please help
Hello Justin19,
I read your message with care. I understand you care about your sister a lot.
You know, it is difficult to answer the question "is love wonderful or painful". Things are never black or white. Some will say it's wonderful, others will say it can sometimes be painful. Do you understand what I mean by that?
I'm not sure exactly what kind of help you are looking for in your sister's situation. What do you want to do exactly? Your sister, like everybody, will learn through her experiences. Some will bring her a lot of happiness and some will bring sadness. You can't protect from being sad sometimes. It's part of life; that's how we grow up. What do you think?
As a brother you can't make sure she will never get her heart crushed. Maybe she will. And maybe she will have great romances. As a brother, you can offer her your advices, your own experiences, your presence and your love. It's such a precious thing to have people to look for when we need it. Do you agree with me?
You can also remind your sister that Tel-jeunes is always available to help her with all her preoccupations about love. There is also more info in our Love's section. Here's the link to our website : http://en.teljeunes.com/get-informed/love/ah-sweet-love.
I think you might find it interesting or you can make her read it. Ok?
Take care Justin19!
Tel-jeunes