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Ace* - girl - 14 ans (4 July 2008)

Thank you very much for the answer, I spoke to him and everything is settled. We talk but when asked if we could ever be like we used to, the response I got was, 'We only used to talk about us, and what could be.' He had a lot of great points. It came up that we both really miss each other and still have feelings for each other. I am very unsure if I should try to get back together with him, or leave it alone and just be his friend. Either way would be good, but I need guidence. Please try to help, it's hard to understand yes, but, I don't know. Thank You.

Tel-jeunes’ answer

Hello Ace*! Understanding our feelings can sometimes be difficult.

You’re not sure if you should try to get back with your boyfriend or only be friends. I understand you’re a little bit mixed up. Tell me, have you ever been in love before? If so, do you feel the same way about this friend? I understand you still have feelings for this guy and those feelings are mutual. Some people, when in love, have butterflies in their stomach when they see the other person. Others want the other person to find them beautiful, want to spend time together and are always thinking about the person they love. The person we love is usually someone we feel comfortable with, someone we want to get intimate with, etc. And you, how do you feel about this guy?

You know, we sometimes want our feelings to be clear rapidly, but time can also help! If you’re not sure, could you give yourself some time? Could you be friends for now and see what happens?

I’ll let you think about all this. Take care Ace*!


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