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[ Still In Love With My Ex. ]

UTTERLYCONFUSEDGIRL - girl - 17 ans (19 August 2009)

I've been in love with my ex boyfriend ever since we've broken up, 3 years ago. I know I'm in love because I never felt anything for anyone as strong as I've felt for him. The problem is that he's also my bestfriend. I don't know what to do. Should I just keep the pain locked up and leave things ? or should I just let him go once and for all? This feelings are driving me crazy

Tel-jeunes’ answer

Hello UTTERLYCONFUSEDGIRL! I understand this situation is difficult for you.

I would really like to tell you what to do, but you're the only one that can decide what's best for you. Tell me, for these past 3 years, what helped you feel better? Are there any moments where you felt better? First, you could decide to continue to go on like this. Did you see any amelioration for the past 3 years? Do you think this decision would help you feel better? On the other hand, you can decide to "let him go once and for all". What do you think about this idea? Do you think, after 3 years, it's maybe time to let him go?

I can read how difficult this is for you. Have you ever got help to go through all this? There are professionals that can help you about this grief. Do you think that would help? You can get help at your local CLSC or with a psychologist in private practice. What do you think?

If you need to talk more about this situation, I invite you to call is directly. We are there for you 24/7 at 1 800 263-2266.

Take care!


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