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[ my 1st time ]

misslola - girl - 17 ans (15 August 2008)

hey im still a virgin and mi boyfriend and i want to have sex with me and i think im ready for my 1st time but im scared of getting pregnant even if i use a condom because theres a lot of girls in my school that they are pregnant and im too young so i dont know what to do can u help me =] thanks

Tel-jeunes’ answer

Hello misslola,

Pregnancy is an aspect of sexuality that worries a lot of people… It’s normal and it’s a good idea to talk about it.

You know, being active sexually rimes with the risk of pregnancy. It’s part of it. Do you understand what I mean? Different contraceptive methods are accessible to help reducing this risk. The condom is one, but there are a lot of different ones. Doctors usually recommend to use a contraceptive method and the condom altogether.

It’s also important to take our time in order to get prepared before acting. For example, a visit to the doctor could provide us some useful info about contraception. How would you feel about it? Would it help you to reduce the fear of pregnancy?

We are always available for your questions! Have a great day,


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